For my father and mentor Don Welch 1932-2016
SWIFTS
Is it true we enter heaven through chimneys
no longer resting on stub tails our beaks in bricks’ cracks
Is this what it is to go solely As wing
to be loved by the sky
Tell me wise ones how many flits add up to glee
in an air territorial one that’s driven out jays
and if spirit’s not iridescent with what does light play
Don Welch
To go solely as wing, to be loved by the sky, gleefully and sweetly released into the sanctuary of spirit and light. That is precisely how my father left this earth.
Years ago, in a song whose title I no longer remember, I was taken by the words beautiful agony. A paradox, indeed. And yet, as agonizing as the last days of a loved one’s life may be for those who cannot imagine a world without him or her, they may also be incredibly beautiful. For me, my family, and countless friends and colleagues, these days were beautiful, filled with reverence and great love for my father’s life and legacy.
In the sanctuary of sweet release, there is beauty in the going–as well as in the coming to those chimneys through which all swifts enter heaven. And if spirit’s not iridescent? I can hear my father’s voice, feel the very rhythms of his speech–rhythms that have long sustained and shaped me–as he answers, with what would light play?
How immeasurably blessed all of us have been to play in the light of my father, your friend, colleague, and teacher.
8 Comments
blessings on your journey with your spirit father…. condolences.
August 7, 2016 at 1:28 amThank you so much, Connie.
August 8, 2016 at 9:45 pmShannon, I was directed to your web site by my best friend, David Wright. I wanted to pass along my condolences and let you know that your dad was my mentor and inspiration. He is the reason I became an English teacher. His encouragement, advice, and support meant the world to me. And while I am no longer in the profession, I continue to carry with me the lessons he taught me, not only about writing, but about believing in my abilities. May you find peace and comfort in knowing that he touched so many lives. God’s blessings.
August 7, 2016 at 1:42 amSo nice to hear from you Shari! He was my mentor and inspiration, as well! My family and I have been humbled by the many people who have visited, written, and called. God is so good!
August 8, 2016 at 9:45 pmWhat a beautiful tribute to your Dad Shannon. You have your father’s gift of words. My thoughts, prayers, and love to all of you. I will miss him greatly. He was a GREAT man.
August 7, 2016 at 1:52 amI was so happy that your mom got to see him when she did. He was GREAT man, indeed, and will be sorely missed. We are blessed to have such a great family and group of supporting friends!
August 8, 2016 at 9:44 pmThis is a beautiful remembrance and legacy to your father, Shannon. Though agonizing, these last days have been filled with beauty and grace. Thanks again for your wonderful words.
August 7, 2016 at 2:48 amAnd words cannot express how much my family and I have appreciated your presence and support.
August 8, 2016 at 9:42 pm